I am the Queen of Quandary. Somehow, someway, I usually find myself backed into a difficult situation that I have no idea how to get out of. How did I get myself there? I usually try to make every one happy, which by now I should know, never works and usually ends up in a shi* storm.
I entered into that shi* storm today and here I am trying my best to climb out of it. What do you do when you try to fit a square peg into a round hole?? The quandary here, is that I offered a job to someone, who out of loyalty, squeezed me into their busy schedule. Then, just before the job was about to begin, I found someone who had no schedule constraints. Now what do I do???
I know that the original person was actually squeezing me in out of loyalty, and that the other person is perfect for the job and has no schedule conflicts. Here's where I FAIL as a person and an employer. I don't want to rumple any feathers, yet I don't need both people. Somebody has to go, and I feel terrible.
Long story short, I left it up to both players to figure it out, like a coward would do, and now I have a bigger shi* storm than when I started, and too many people to do a one man job. What the HELL is wrong with me? I've now got to fix this problem I created.
SO bloggers, you think you got the answer? What would you do?
The person who's perfect for the job with no time constraints gets the job. It seems kind of obvious to me, but I don't have any emotion in it, either.
ReplyDeleteLoyalty is awesome, but there are ways of talking to them and letting them down easy.
^^This up here^^
ReplyDeleteif there just doing it out of loyalty, then do they really even WANT the job?
ReplyDeletei'd say #2 gets it.
Eeek! Well, it seems like you'd be doing both people a favor by picking the 2nd person. Your 1st person is freed from the obligation that they probably don't have the time for anyway, and your 2nd person gets a good fair job.
ReplyDeleteGood luck!!!
Long answer short? I'd grow a pair and be the boss.
ReplyDeleteThis is exactly why I love you Walking Man...
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